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The O&P website and blog, forums, and wiki are where most of my new writing on M/s appears. The IE website will stay online indefinitely to host the IE Essays and lili's writings. lili and I pursued our M/s relationship from 2000 to 2008, and lili has kindly given her permission for these essays and posts to remain here, in the hope that submissives and slaves will continue to be helped and inspired by them.

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lili's weblog

15 Mar 02   Two years of changes...
Perhaps change is the biggest thing I've notice about myself over the past two years, which is weird, really, for someone who, generally, hates change as much as I do. [more...]
5 Nov 01   lianne: on finances
"One of the hardest things about being a slave is loosing financial independance" - True or false? [more...]
4 Nov 01    How it was and how it is...
It's been 3 months since I wrote on my weblog. Its about the same amount of time since I've written anywhere infact [well almost.] [more...]
14 Aug 01   The Good, the Bad and the Ugly.
Well, here's a question I've been thinking about. What is the difference between a healthy M/s relationship and an abusive one? In essence and on the surface, often, one seems to be very like the other. Its something I've struggled with for a while. [more...]
21 Jun 01   Fascinating mystery
Is it human nature to be fascinated by the mysterious? It would seem that "mysterious" cultures hold a fascination with many of us at the moment. "The tales of Sinbad", "Arabian nights", "The Market place" and even "The story of 'O'". Tales of secret societies, exotic rituals, beautiful people and wonderful places. There would seem little doubt that many people are drawn to these fantasies in the hope that there-in lies a reality, after all is it not true that there is no smoke without fire? [more...]
27 May 01   Little children or a little child-like?
Not too long ago Tanos came across a message posted on a mailing list. He passed it on to me. I read it and thought it was absolutely wonderful. It was posted with the title "A submissive's message to a Dominant." It read: [more...]
16 Apr 01   Familiar things.
I haven't written a weblog for quite a while, motivation seems to be somewhat sporadic at present. Motivation is a strange thing. I've taken it for granted for so long that, once the reality of having my motivation controlled by someone else hit home, it really does feel quite strange. Again, for me, its been one of those things that I've understood for quite some time, logically, that Tanos would gradually take enough control that he would control my motivation, but its only recently that I have come to realise what that actually does mean. [more...]
20 Feb 01   When less really is more...
I have heard many submissives say that they had submissive tendencies from a very early age and I know that I experience submissive responses to situations not just dominant personalities, so is submissiveness exclusively linked to sexuality and/or a dominant? Is it induced only in a D/s context? ....and what is this feeling of submissiveness anyway? [more...]
18 Jan 01   So, what's in it for a Master?
So, what's in it for the Master? At first it seems obvious...he gets his washing done, his meals cooked, he never has to wash up etc etc...and, yes, he gets to have sex whenever [and indeed however] he pleases. Bringing it down to basics he gets to do exactly what he wants, whenever he wants...or does he? [more...]
5 Jan 01   Society of 2
Today I unsubscribed from most of the mailing lists I used to read and sometimes participate in. I finally came to the conclusion that they are, basically, unproductive and extremely unhelpful. I always joined in the hope of finding people and discussing in a productive way how things can and sometimes actually are for people interested or actually living this kind of relationship. [more...]

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