|15 Mar 02 Two years of changes...|
|Perhaps change is the biggest thing I've notice about
myself over the past two years, which is weird, really,
for someone who, generally, hates change as much as I
|5 Nov 01 lianne: on finances|
|"One of the hardest things about being a slave is
loosing financial independance" - True or false? [more...]
|4 Nov 01 How it was and how it is...|
|It's been 3 months since I wrote on my weblog. Its
about the same amount of time since I've written
anywhere infact [well almost.] [more...]
|14 Aug 01 The Good, the Bad and the Ugly.|
|Well, here's a question I've been thinking about.
What is the difference between a healthy M/s
relationship and an abusive one?
In essence and on the surface, often, one seems to be
very like the other. Its something I've struggled with
for a while. [more...]
|21 Jun 01 Fascinating mystery|
|Is it human nature to be fascinated by the mysterious?
It would seem that "mysterious" cultures hold a
fascination with many of us at the moment.
"The tales of Sinbad", "Arabian nights", "The Market
and even "The story of 'O'".
Tales of secret societies, exotic rituals, beautiful
people and wonderful places. There would seem little
doubt that many people are drawn to these fantasies in
the hope that there-in lies a reality, after all is it
not true that there is no smoke without fire? [more...]
|27 May 01 Little children or a little child-like?|
|Not too long ago Tanos came across a message posted
on a mailing list. He passed it on to me. I read it and
thought it was absolutely wonderful. It was posted with
the title "A submissive's message to a Dominant." It
|16 Apr 01 Familiar things.|
|I haven't written a weblog for quite a while,
motivation seems to be somewhat sporadic at present.
Motivation is a strange thing. I've taken it for
granted for so long that, once the reality of having my
motivation controlled by someone else hit home, it
really does feel quite strange.
Again, for me, its been one of those things that I've
understood for quite some time, logically, that Tanos
would gradually take enough control that he would
control my motivation, but its only recently that I
have come to realise what that actually does mean. [more...]
|20 Feb 01 When less really is more...|
|I have heard many submissives say that they had
submissive tendencies from a very early age and I know
that I experience submissive responses to situations
not just dominant personalities, so is
submissiveness exclusively linked to sexuality and/or a
dominant? Is it induced only in a D/s context?
....and what is this feeling of submissiveness anyway? [more...]
|18 Jan 01 So, what's in it for a Master?|
|So, what's in it for the Master?
At first it seems obvious...he gets his washing done,
his meals cooked, he never has to wash up etc
etc...and, yes, he gets to have sex whenever [and
indeed however] he pleases.
Bringing it down to basics he gets to do exactly what
he wants, whenever he wants...or does he? [more...]
|5 Jan 01 Society of 2|
|Today I unsubscribed from most of the mailing lists I
used to read and sometimes participate in.
I finally came to the conclusion that they are,
basically, unproductive and extremely unhelpful.
I always joined in the hope of finding people and
discussing in a productive way how things can and
sometimes actually are for people interested or
actually living this kind of relationship. [more...]