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The O&P website and blog, forums, and wiki are where most of my new writing on M/s appears. The IE website will stay online indefinitely to host the IE Essays and lili's writings. lili and I pursued our M/s relationship from 2000 to 2008, and lili has kindly given her permission for these essays and posts to remain here, in the hope that submissives and slaves will continue to be helped and inspired by them.

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lili's weblog

17 Dec 00   The elements of a Master-slave relationship
There are many elements required to create and maintain a Master slave relationship. Some are specifically D/s but many are not, although they are essential to the healthy development of an ownership based relationship. [more...]
9 Dec 00   Letting go
Tanos is away. [more...]
28 Nov 00   Enslavement and the threat to self
One of the biggest problems I had (and to a much lesser extent still do have) is coping with the very real experience of "threat to self". [more...]
25 Nov 00   About that gift.....
"Submission is a gift" is one of those lovely slogans we see bandied about all over the internet [at least a good portion of the D/s sites anyway]. It sounds nice and as submissives we like it because it gives us a sense of importance. It also makes us feel less vulnerable because it reminds us [and the dominant population] that this "gift" can just as quickly be withdrawn. [more...]
3 Nov 00   Another beginning.
In the beginning I was scared and insecure and feeling vulnerable. I had begun to understand my needs and that those needs were not conventional but I didn't really understand why that was or what that would mean for me. I knew what the idea of slavery did to me. I knew how my mind and body reacted to the concept of being owned by someone. I did not know how that would feel or how, indeed, one was supposed to go about becomming the property of someone. [more...]
2 Nov 00   Acceptance
I always believed that when it happened to me it would be as so many others describe. Something significant would happen, something BIG! Something that would leave me sobbing and begging at the feet of my Master. Truely a day to remember. It happened to me, but not like this, not how I expected and not as others describe. [more...]
9 Oct 00   The perception of needs
Someone pointed out recently how an ownership based relationship can often, quite mistakenly, be regarded as the cure for all ills and how many submissives hold on to the belief that finding the right partner is the answer to all their problems, no matter what their problems are. [more...]
8 Oct 00   How safe is a "safe-word"
Within the context of a stable, ongoing ownership based relationship how safe is a "safe-word"? [more...]
8 Oct 00   A question of love
A question which is often raised when discussing ownership based relationships is whether or not there must be love in order for that relationship to flourish and grow and have longevity? [more...]
30 Sep 00   Resistance, Reactance and Changes
I thought I'd write a little about acceptance and changes, really, because I have been through some strange times because of resistance and reactance to the changes brought about by the increasing loss of authority in areas of my own life. [more...]
30 Sep 00   Empowered submissives
To live as a submissive in a patriarchal society involves a great deal of personal power. We learn to survive the everyday challenges with the additional burden of a nature which does not fit well into the "dog eat dog" mentality of life in the 21st century. [more...]
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